The one, and only

When u find the one u love, it's like family, u don't get to pick and choose, u might not have the same opinions, or get along perfectly but you know u can't help but love them. It's unconditional, and by all means it lasts forever. Even if u don't speak to each other, even if anger steps in... The problem, in the end is not love, but all the other stuff that gets in the way, and only the truly intelligent and blessed realize that anything other than love is merely trivial and unimportant, they are the only ones that can be truly happy...

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me...

I don't really believe anything until I see it with my own two eyes, or until I understand the principle behind it. The proof of the pudding is in the eating, which means, to fully test something, you need to experience it yourself, firsthand. People can say or do anything in regards to you, what matters most is what you believe and the means by which you analyze other people's actions.

Chickens chase butterflies, a monkey will never be enough

Ever have the feeling, no matter how much you try, no matter what you do, you're just not good enough? News flash, nobody is ever good enough, because nobody is perfect, all that really matters is our preconceptions and what we are willing to overlook.

That's the problem with love, it's blind and deaf and dumb and most of the time misdirected.

So many faults are overlooked because of love, but also qualities in others close to us, maybe it's because opposites attract and two people that are both kind, loving and considerate could not be together.

There are so many variables in life, but there is one clear choice, leave it to chance or take it in your own hands and do whatever you can to get what you want. The only problem with this theory is that very few people know what they want.

Even these lines which I am writing now might be misconstrued, that's just human nature, bad stuff is easier to believe than good stuff. If you hear a rumor that someone loves you, you don't believe it, or you ignore it for being too good to be true, but if you hear someone is cheating or does not love you anymore you immediately give it credit.

I refuse to do this, I refuse to believe the bad over the good, man is the sum of his actions, not just one taken out of context. Everyone has good inside them, beauty, you just have to have the power to see it, and nourish it, so it shines through.

Confessions of a broken soul...

You never quite know when the end is coming, or if it truly is the last one, and it isn't followed by a rebirth of the same relationship. I've always believed that if u love something, let it go, but I never understood the coming back part. I thought that as long as I love him, his happiness should be number one, and then I would be happy. But it doen't quite work that way, people need their freedom, but also boundaries, if not, they do what they think makes them happy, they step all over you, your heart, because they know u can take it. Then comes regret, but a simple sorry just ain't gonna cut it to heal a broken heart. You have to do something, to prove yourself, that kind of trust just doesn't grow on trees.
Everybody says they know what happens after a breakup, that u go through different stages, the truth is, no one knows, each broken heart's pain is unique and worse, each in it's own way...

Happy beyond belief

I never thought life could be so full of emotion...
"You're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be, and I don't wanna leave here right now"
Lyrics by The Goo Goo Dolls, I feel exactly that right now, I think life would be nothing without love, and it's definitely better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I've learned that u can't avoid love, and it's much better to face it full on and let it take you over, with the risk of getting hurt, no matter how bad the pain is, it can't erase those moments of absolute magic and crazy chemistry... Pain is better than regret every day of the week and twice on sundays:)

Solutii...???...de fapt o pasa pesimista

Chestiile cel mai usor de facut sunt de multe ori cele mai urate, asa cum vorbele urate sunt de multe ori mai credibile decat cele frumoase.

Personal, mi-am dat seama ca am un dar extraordinar de a indeparta oamenii de mine spunand chestii in prostie pentru a ma elibera eu de ele. Dar atunci cand ai o pasa proasta si spui tot ce ai pe suflet in cel mai negativ mod posibil, daca treci peste a doua zi, tocmai pt ca te-ai eliberat vorbind, iti vei pierde credibilitatea. Si e si normal, doar ca ceea ce oamenii in general nu inteleg, este ca nu exista adevar sau minciuna, exista vorbe spuse din diverse motive, cu diverse nuante, pe care conteaza cel mai mult daca cel care le spune le crede; lucru mult mai greu de aflat si de demonstrat decat adevarul sau minciuna. Ce ramane de facut? Cautarea altor eliberari decat in fata oamenilor, in special celor apropiati... nu e bine sa ascunzi sentimentele, dar cand ele se schimba din trei in trei secunde nu e bine sa impartasesti confuzia, pentru ca nu vei face decat sa o raspandesti. Cea mai buna cale de eliberare probabil e psihiatru, un om care e platit sa te asculte, vrea nu vrea te asculta iar si iar si uneori incearca sa iti ofere solutii, sau te ajuta sa tragi concluzii. Din pacate si ei sunt tot oameni si nici ei nu pot oferii solutii, doar o alta forma mascata de ambiguitate, si speranta ca maine vei primi mai multe raspunsuri.

"Think to yourself that every day is your last; the hour to which you do not look forward will come as a welcome surprise." Horace

P.S. Faptul ca am scris in titlu o "pasa" vrea sa zica,(virgula) ca eu nu sunt in stare decat in scris sau verbal sa exprim pesimism, in capul meu intotdeauna exista speranta si niciodata nu cred decat in mai bine, oricat de rau m-as simti sau orice s-ar intampla, chestie care uneori ma sperie si simt nevoia sa ma exprim negativ(sa-mi plang de mila fara motiv). Poate pentru asta sunt compulsive liar, ca nici cand exprim gandurile negative nu le cred, dar simt nevoia grav ca altii sa creada ca e asa. Un prieten mi-a spus ca optimismul meu o sa dispara cand o sa mi se intample ceva foarte foarte nasol si probabil asa e, dar pana atunci nu ma pot schimba, voluntar sau nu.

Summer