There are two sides to every story

Everyone, including yours truly, should stop playing the blame game and start understanding that sh.. happens and feelings sometimes cannot be controlled. And I'm not just talking about blaming others, i have too often blamed myself and felt guilty for things that were not only my fault. Life's too short to waste it pointing fingers, if something happens, try to fix it, in the nicest way possible, don't look for scape goats or wallow in self-hate.